Top Tips for Supporting Choice
Dignity is not a reward. It is a right.
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Why This Matters
Choice helps people maintain independence, dignity and a sense of control. Even small decisions can reinforce identity and support person-centred care.
Introduction
Supporting choice is about much more than offering options. It is about recognising the person’s right to influence their own day, express preferences and remain actively involved in decisions that affect them. Every choice creates an opportunity for independence and can contribute to a Magical Meaningful Moment.
Real-Life Example
George was routinely given tea each afternoon until a staff member asked what he actually preferred. The answer was simple: coffee. That small conversation led to bigger discussions about other preferences and routines that had quietly been overlooked.
Mike’s Reflection
When we support choice, we send a powerful message: You still matter, and your voice still counts.
This Week’s Top Tips
Noticing
- Notice when choices are offered and when assumptions are made
- Pay attention to how people express preferences
- Look for opportunities to promote independence
Supporting Choice
- Offer simple and meaningful options
- Allow time for decision-making
- Adapt communication where needed
Respecting Preferences
- Recognise that preferences may change
- Avoid making decisions for convenience alone
- Value each person’s right to choose
A Gentle Reminder
Small choices can make a big difference.
July Challenge
Create one Magical Meaningful Moment this week and share it with a colleague, family member or friend.
Over to You
What is one opportunity this week to increase choice?
Remember: Small Moments can make a Big Difference.
Over to You:
Release Your Potential
- Do any of these things ring true for you and can you picture yourself putting these tips into action?
- What would it look, sound and feel like if you put some of these tips into action – for you and others?
- What barriers might you come against when putting these tips/ideas into action? How might you overcome them?
- Who could give you support and how?
- Have you tried these tips and ideas out and, if so, what have you learned?
I’d love to hear your thoughts, reflections, gut reactions, perceptions, experiences and wisdom.
Remember that sharing our experiences can help others, so your thoughts and comments are always welcome.
